In the case of a prime minister what Hospitality
could have chosen to do is play him back with jocularity. In good
humour pull his hair – because a woman could get away with that like a man
can’t (the genders are different, get over it) – or refer to his lack of hair,
whatever; keep it light hearted. People are in a café to wind down and let
their guards down, especially after a drink or three,
Hospitality normally
tries its hardest not to throw this back in a patron's face: bad for business.
My blog is two thirds read out of the US and Europe, so sorry to my readers
there, this post relates to New Zealand, though you may find it interesting.
#Ponytailgate, for the uninitiated, involves the furore barnstorming New Zealand
on our Prime Minister John Key (who runs a socialist government) tugging the
ponytail of a café waitress coming up to our general election over 2014.
Take
1: my attitude to ponytailgate?
My
previous post on
Giovanni Tiso
only concerned the free speech issues of his attack on the sponsors of Seven Sharp (with the intention of having co-anchor Mike Hosking sacked for his comment on #ponytailgate),
and then the subsequent attack launched from the grey wastelands of Progressivestan
on the tenets of our free press proper. Hosking’s offence which caused Tiso’s
umbrage taking was immaterial.
Noting
that for our entire country to be cavorting over the pulling of a
waitress’s pony tail yet bears certain inferences as to how good this country is to live in – because, look at the world – one of the problems with
campaigns such as Tiso’s, is that prudent people learn in short order to shut
up and take their opinions underground. That is a bad thing as pertaining to
living free lives, and it threatens, ultimately, the peaceful society.
That
said, and I've said it before, I am not a prudent man.
I
am a classical liberal feminist, but my response to #ponytailgate is somehow
skewing itself to a sexist one. This partly due to my ongoing campaign against a
collectivist hell threatening to be delivered on the free society via Marxist
Feminism and identity politics – which I've written just this month has for some time been committed to the
Orwellian task of destroying
language itself
– but partly due also to … well, read my tweet timeline below and decide for
yourself …
Take 2:
my attitude to ponytailgate?
Of course
Prime Minister John Key was in the wrong, and abusing his power by pulling a
waitress’s pony tail. The problem is not that he did it once (if that then my
Twitter timeline comments below would be 100% correct). The problem is he
supposedly did it multiple times after being asked to stop.
Take 3:
my attitude to ponytailgate?
You’ll
note from this piece I’m a bit conflicted – this post is about honesty, (to aid
those of you who will at some stage use it against me).
Take
4: my attitude to ponytailgate?
To
hell with this. Following is my Tweet exchange with media commentator John Drinnan;
noteworthy, please, it was late on Wednesday night, 29 April.
Outside
the sexism – yes there is sexism in #ponytailgate - no one is acknowledging the
reality of what it is to work in hospitality. And my real point: neither of the
groups to which waitress Amanda Bailey has turned, that turgid promoter of
identity politics, The Daily Mud –
for my overseas readers, The Daily Blog - and now Unite Union, seems to
be considering or concerned about her future.
Is my
take that emerges from the below exchange sexist? In some aspects yes. Hell
yes, in the context of that story. I am uncomfortable extrapolating some of my
positions evident in this. But I’m not necessarily willing to let them go.
Does that
make me sexist? No.
And some
of this is important, so I’m just putting it up, you decide for yourself.
As with
most Twitter timelines this became fragmented, so I’ll simply copy and paste in
coherent chunks, then leave off with that. I realise this is rather long, but
as the radfems don’t say, it’s about me, so must be interesting. And give me life’s
flawed characters any day.
Remember this is Twitter: no apologies for the typos.
Timeline Fragment 1:
Timeline Fragment 2:
Timeline Fragment 3:
That!
‘But
you can also decide to enter the spirit of those out to relax, that’s
hospitality.’
In
the case of a prime minister what Hospitality could have chosen to do is play him back with jocularity. In good humour pull his hair – because a
woman could get away with that like a man can’t (the genders are different, get
over it) – or refer to his lack of hair, whatever; keep it light hearted. People
are in a café to wind down and let their guards down, especially after a drink
or three, Hospitality normally tries its hardest not to throw this back in a patron's face: bad for business.
Much
of hospitality is an attitude you choose to have, within context of the
customers.
Timeline Fragment 4:
Timeline Fragment 5:
I
shall definitely regret that tweet at some future date.
Pretty
much it by this point. Other than a thanks to John: it’s so nice to have a
grown up conversation on Twitter for once.