My further letter to the editor
(Press) on this topic:
To
Alison Hennig’s (Oct 4) reply to my own letter. Critical thinking in children
is fine, but remember they have no adult judgement: it is the role of parents
to exercise adult judgement on their behalf. Children will react to a school
closure in the manner that it is pitched to them by their parents: positive or
negative. Just as when a child changes a school in the ordinary run of events. If
you don’t believe me about the risk of following a child’s judgement, read
William Golding’s ‘Lord of the Flies’. School closures in Christchurch need to
be thought about, rather than emoted on. The valid point that parents do have
is the MOE’s unsound data: decisions should not be made on that either – mind you,
that’s also the argument to keep the state out of your child’s education.
… and incidentally, to the anonymous
snail mail poster from my first letter, if you’d had the gumption to put your
name and contact details to your correspondence, then we could have entered
into a rational discussion. Although, again, you didn’t send me a letter, so
much as a badly packaged, badly spelled, agglomeration of your emotions. Take a
chill pill and have a lie down; next you’ll be inciting the children to
violence.
How is then that my child came home in tears when she heard, on the radio, her school might be closed? Some kids are smart!
ReplyDeleteGoodness me. Your child came home in tears because your child is a child.
DeleteHere's the important thing. Did you say, 'it's sad, but there's been this big event, so some things change. However, that's okay, it'll be an adventure, all your friends will be going with you, it's nothing to worry about, it'll be fun ...'
Or, did you pander to it, on the level of the child?
(Sorry for harshness, but you asked, and jeez, a reply like this worries me for our future ...)